Mr Kirk Upton

Psychologist

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Hi, I'm Kirk

Hi, I'm Kirk. I often get asked if i'm a Star Trek fan. I hope to support your mental health with warmth, compassion, understanding and just a little bit of humour.

My migrant upbringing taught me to listen deeply; joyful, colorful stories were rarely singular - they held variations, translations, and layered family interpretations. This shaped my understanding that every person’s narrative is rich, multifaceted, and deserving of curiosity and care.

Growing up in Australia, time in nature has been an anchor for clarity and wellbeing throughout my work in mental health. My connection to the environment encourages me to look up, notice my surroundings, and embrace the journey — even when the boulder ahead feels large.

I have worked in mental health for over 16 years, supporting individuals and couples through life’s challenges. My early work centred around families and individuals experiencing addiction, later expanding into PTSD treatment and veteran support. I then began a new chapter in general medical and primary care settings, working closely with LGBTIQA+, CALD, and ATSI communities.

Continuing in the general health space, I am furthering my work with neurodiverse people, collaborating within multidisciplinary, neuroaffirming teams to enhance holistic care.

My Approach

My approach is grounded in compassion, curiosity, and collaboration. I believe people are inherently resilient, and that therapy offers a space to reconnect with this strength- especially when life feels overwhelming or uncertain.

Time outdoors keeps me balanced; nature has a way of returning us to what matters most. In my clinical work, I take a similar stance -slowing down, noticing what is present, and honoring the inner wisdom each person brings.

I am committed to creating a safe and affirming therapeutic environment where people feel seen, supported, and encouraged to grow. I draw from evidence-based frameworks, including Internal Family Systems, Emotion-Focused Therapy, EMDR, CBT, and Compassion-Focused Therapy.

My passion lies in helping clients find clarity, meaning, and movement toward what feels authentic and life-giving.

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Main areas of expertise

Autism Spectrum Disorder
Anxiety
LGBTQIA+
Panic attacks
Addiction
PTSD

“We are rivers shaped by many stones. Therapy helps us notice their influence and gently redirect our flow.”

My style is

collaborative
compassionate
humorous
warm

Positive Mindset

Resilience

Meaning & Value

Somatic Complaints

Workplace relationships

Communication

Life Transitions

Sexuality and Gender

Grief and Loss

Autism Spectrum Disorder

Relationships

Sleep difficulties

Stress

Anxiety

LGBTQIA+

Trauma

Self-Development

Depression

Panic attacks

Racial Identity

Addiction

Career

Burnout

Alcohol and Drug Use

PTSD

Low mood

Weight Loss

Fear of Failure

Social Anxiety

Domestic Violence

Academic Performance

Anger

Work Stress

Healthy Habits

Confidence

Self-Esteem

Peer Relationships/Friendships

Family

Performance

School Issues

ADD/ADHD

Perfectionism

Phobias

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Medicare rebates

Access up to 10 sessions for only $129.05 after you have claimed your Medicare rebate.

Unlock medicare rebates when you upload a valid Mental Health Plan and a Referral Letter from your GP to your profile.

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Frequently Asked Questions


: We ensure all of our Clinical Psychologists and General Psychologists have current registration to practice with the Psychology Board of Australia (PsyBA) and are listed with the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA). My Mirrors ensure all of our psychologists have the required credentials and qualifications, and have relevant experience in the treatment of adult mental health issues. They also undergo an interview process conducted by a team of us at My Mirror, to ensure they uphold the highest of standards in ethical care and work in line with evidence-based practices to guide your therapy.
: My Mirror is an online psychology service available to anyone (within Australia) aged 13 years and over.

If you are aged 16 years or under, by using the My Mirror service you confirm that you have parental, guardian or GP consent.

Note: If you are under 13 years of age and interested in using our service, please contact our admin team on 02 9090 4730 or hello@mymirror.com.au. This will allow us to help you find a psychologist suited to your needs and explain the parental, guardian or GP consent we require before you use our service.
: My Mirror supports private fees and Medicare benefits. Please see the full details on our pricing page.

A Mental Health Plan entitles you to Medicare* rebates for psychological treatment by registered psychologists. Under this scheme, individuals diagnosed with a mental health disorder or concerns can access up to 10 individual Medicare-subsidised psychology sessions per calendar year.

*Medicare eligible clients 

For private fee sessions that are not eligible for Medicare rebates, there is a price difference between booking your online session with a general psychologist and a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance you may still be eligible to claim your sessions - please check with your provider.
: You may be eligible to use My Mirror telehealth services from just $129.05 for a standard 50 min session, if:

you hold a Mental Health Care Plan and GP referral to access Medicare rebates

You may be eligible to use our telehealth services for a reduced cost, if**:

your employer, or relevant organisation, has provided a discount code to apply to our services, or

your private health insurance covers telehealth psychology services

*For more details on rebates, discount codes and pricing structures please read our Terms of Service.
**For further information about employer discounts and private health insurance please speak to your employer and/or your private health insurance provider.
: If you're looking to develop the tools required to build agency and strengthen your psychological resilience, then My Mirror is the right digital psychology service for you. We want to connect you with the right therapist for your needs, so you can take control of your mental wellbeing and become a healthier you with more productive relationships. My Mirror psychologists are all fully equipped with a wide range of expertise, and help treat the full range of Australians with varying levels of psychological distress.

Our psychologists treat specific mental health concerns such as, or associated with: stress, anxiety, depression, prenatal and post natal depression, relationships, parenting related issues, family conflict, addictions, drugs and alcohol, sleep issues, eating disorders, LGBT matters, bullying, trauma, post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), religion, self-esteem, grief and more.

My Mirror will not be able to offer the right solution for you if:

you are in an urgent crisis or an emergency situation

you have had suicidal thoughts or thoughts of hurting yourself or others

you are a minor and under the care of a legal guardian

you have been diagnosed with a severe mental illness

you have been advised to be in psychological supervision or psychiatric care

you were required to undergo therapy or counselling either by a court or by any other authority, or

you do not have a device that can connect to the internet or you do not have a reliable internet connection.

If you are feeling suicidal or are in crisis call 000 (AU) or use these resources to get immediate help.